Q. I have never slept with a woman before. I have started to date a girl I really like, I’m worried that if I tell her she will not want to carry on dating me. I am 25 so I know she definitely won’t be expecting it! What shall I do?
A. Definitely tell her! We have all been in that position before and she will understand as she’s been there too, even if at a different time of her life. When you like someone you’re up for working through anything. Also, sex is a natural part of being human, when you are actually in the moment you will find it doesn’t really make a difference that you haven’t done it before if you like each other. Everyone is different so when you sleep with someone for the first time no matter how experienced you are you will always need to discover what they as an individual respond to. If she reacts badly she wasn’t worth your time anyway and you have to question why she was even with you in the first place xx
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